8 things to make life better in a year

1. Stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are everyday.

2. Embrace loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process.

3. Say goodbye to the people that don’t bring positive energy in your life.

4. Throw off the TV and set internet controls.

5. Pick one skill you want to cultivate and put all your efforts in developing it.

6. Commit to the goals you set and never look back.

7. Sweat everyday to boost your mind.

8. Fail forward. Learn from every mistake you make.

Say NO

What do you think is the most difficult thing to say?….let me tell you…NO.

From the time we are in school, we are taught to say yes to every work or responsibility given to us, we are supposed to say yes to everything our teacher says. But the real meaning of life lies in saying NO. The person who has the ability to say NO without any hesitation or second guesses has no stopping whatsoever.

So , learn to say NO and teach our children to say NO.

Comparison

Comparison is a good thing and a bad thing as well. Comparison is what motivates a person to become better and better every day. It is what helps us to push our limits and scale new heights.

But it is also the cause of our misery and unhappiness. Comparison is what makes you think that you are not good enough, you are not efficient enough and you are not ENOUGH.

Comparison is what lets us think that we are not worthy enough. You see is there is only one millionaire in the town and others are poor, the millionaire would be very happy of his wealth because he is comparing it to others near him. Now, if all others near him are multi millionaires or billionaires, he would feel himself as poor and will become unhappy. Why? Just because he is comparing his level of success with others. This is where we go wrong.

Comparison is not a bad thing but it should not overtake yourself from you. It should act as a motivating force and not as a reason of your dissatisfaction and misery. You need to take care of that.

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DESTINY!!!

What is a Destiny?

It is something what you have always wanted to accomplish. Everyone , when they are young, knows what their destiny is. At that point in their lives, everything is clear and everything is possible. They are not afraid to dream and to yearn for everything they want to see happen to them in their lives. But , as time passes, a mysterious force begins to convince them that it will be impossible for them to realize their destiny.

Now another question arises. What is the MYSTERIOUS FORCE??

Well, it is a force that appears to be negative, but actually shows how to realise your destiny. It prepares your spirit and your will, because there is one great truth on this planet: whoever you are, or whatever it is that you do, when you really want something, it is because that desire originated in the soul of the universe. It is you mission on earth and when you want something , all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it

With this, i am ending this post hoping that we all will have a healthy discussion over this topic and we all will learn something new from each other.

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There are no failures

You may have heard everyone saying that almost 90% of the startups fail or only a few players can make it to international level or only few can make it big in any given area leading to a conclusion that there is a certain level of failure in each and every aspect of life.

But, no one actually fails. Think of a person who has always gotten up after a failure, tried harder to succeed, failed again, tried again and on and on and died like a failure. I am sure you could think of no one like that.

See, no one who actually and continuously tries fails. The business that fails are the ones which fails to get back up again after facing failures. The players who can not make it to international level are the ones who are not committed enough or throw away every opportunity presented to them.

So effectively, there is no failure anywhere if you see. It is in our mind, our will, our persistence and our faith.

Believe in yourself, work insanely hard, don’t let anyone drift you from your goal and you are destined to have success.

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Matching the Frequency

Nicola Tesla…one of the greatest inventor and known as the father of electricity once said that everything is made up of only two things…. ENERGY and FREQUENCY.

We know that everything is energy…it can not be destroyed or removed. It can just be transformed into one thing or another. The human body is also energy and what needs to drive the energy is Frequency.

We focus so much on energy that we forget about the frequency. If the frequency is not appropriate then the energy can not be upto the level you want it to be.

So if you want to do something extraordinary or something great then you need to match your frequency according to the requirement of that thing. Only then you can hope to achieve what you strive for.

Look , there is no logic in dreaming to become a billionaire and just sitting idle in your bed watching tv or wasting your time. You have to get up and work. You need to exceed your limits, get out of your comfort zone and to match your frequency with that of your goals and dreams.

Once you match your frequency with that of your goal and believe that you can do it without a single doubt in your mind, the whole universe will conspire in helping you do so and you will definitely achieve success.

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Reasons of Human Misery

The human race is the only one which is blessed with two most wonderful things by the supreme power…..

1. The vivid sense of memory

2. The fantastic sense of imagination

We can remember many things about the past we have made a lot of impact in our lives and also we can imagine our future as to how it would be or how it should be. Originally, these things were the most valuable gifts for humans and we were supposed to make the best use of them. It is not that we have not used them, we have used them very well….all the technology, the evolution, discoveries, inventions, and the connection among each other is the wonderful example of use of those two gifts.

But these two things have also become the main source of human misery. Most of the human beings use their memory to remember the things that affected them most and still continue to suffer because of something that happened 10 years ago in their life. We also use our sense of imagination to imagine the bad things that can happen to us and suffer way before they actually happen to us or sometimes they don’t actually happen but we have already suffered so much that we feel that the thing will definitely happen to us.

We are using those two gifts so vastly that we have forgot to live in the present. Most of the times, either we are in the past, crying over the bad things that happened to us or cherishing the old memories or we are in the future thinking about the wrong things that can happen to us or the good moments that can take place in our lives. We are so involved in this that we rarely live in the present and we forget that the key to real happiness is to live in the present and to enjoy every moment of life and let the life take its course.

I read a very beautiful thought somewhere, it said:

Life is a path with infinite experiences and opportunities and we are just traveller. Our job is not to worry about the path but to enjoy all the experiences of life that it gives us along the way.

Expert’s Mind with a Beginner’s Insight

An expert is someone who has a broad and deep competence in terms of knowledgeskill and experience through practice and education in a particular field.

An Expert having deep knowledge about a subject, like social media

A Beginner is one who is new in the field and realises that there are millions of things which he needs to learn about the subject. He is always ready to learn new things and learns and becomes better from his mistakes.

A beginner’s Mind

All the persons who are successful have one characteristic in common, they have an expert’s mind along with Beginner’s insight. That means they are expert in their particular field of work but are still able to think like a beginner. They believe that no matter how much they learn, there are always thousands of new things they don’t know about the subject and that’s why they are always ready to learn new things and most importantly, they do not hesitate from committing mistakes.

We all need to have this kind of attitude towards our passion, profession and career. No matter how much we learn, it is never the end and that’s what motivates the winners to keep learning.