Which is Better?

All of you know there are two situations in our life, Happiness and sadness. Now, we feel good when happiness comes but feel bad when it goes. In the same way, we feel bad when sadness comes but feel good when it goes. So, we can say that we feel good and bad in both the situations, although in a different way. So now my question is- Which one is Better? Happiness or Sadness?

Let me clear this- No one is better.

Sad person and Happy person

All these are just situations of life. No situation is better and no situation is worse. We just make them better and worse as per our understanding. We should just live and we should respect every situation because every situation teaches us some lesson.

Now, some of you will ask that we enjoy being in state of happiness but not in the state of sadness. So, according to this logic, happiness is better than sadness. The answer is to analyse why are you able to enjoy the state of happiness? How do you know that you are in the state of happiness? Because you have experienced sadness and you know how miserable it is to be in that state. So, the state of sadness acts as a catalyst to help you fully enjoy your state of happiness. If there was no sadness, you would never know what happiness is. We know about one only because we know about the other. Both of these are complimentary to each other.

I also discussed this thing in my previous post Comparison.

Will appreciate your views on the topic

Thanks

Say NO

What do you think is the most difficult thing to say?….let me tell you…NO.

From the time we are in school, we are taught to say yes to every work or responsibility given to us, we are supposed to say yes to everything our teacher says. But the real meaning of life lies in saying NO. The person who has the ability to say NO without any hesitation or second guesses has no stopping whatsoever.

So , learn to say NO and teach our children to say NO.

Comparison

Comparison is a good thing and a bad thing as well. Comparison is what motivates a person to become better and better every day. It is what helps us to push our limits and scale new heights.

But it is also the cause of our misery and unhappiness. Comparison is what makes you think that you are not good enough, you are not efficient enough and you are not ENOUGH.

Comparison is what lets us think that we are not worthy enough. You see is there is only one millionaire in the town and others are poor, the millionaire would be very happy of his wealth because he is comparing it to others near him. Now, if all others near him are multi millionaires or billionaires, he would feel himself as poor and will become unhappy. Why? Just because he is comparing his level of success with others. This is where we go wrong.

Comparison is not a bad thing but it should not overtake yourself from you. It should act as a motivating force and not as a reason of your dissatisfaction and misery. You need to take care of that.

Thanks😊

The key is to Start

Most people don’t do anything new because they don’t want to be seen at the bottom. Don’t be most people. You just can not jump directly on the top of the ladder from the ground. You have to start from the bottom and this is what most people fail to understand.

You know starting is the key to success. You can think for a whole year about doing something and achieving great success but none of that is going to happen until you START taking actions. Acting for an hour is better than just thinking and doing nothing for 10 hours.

Everyone wants to be great, everyone wants to be the best. But they don’t understand that no one is great or best right from the start. It takes continuous action, hard work, sweat and commitment to give your best every single day. You have to start in order to become great and you have to start every single day to become better than the previous day. This is the only key, if you don’t start, no matter how great your idea is, how solid your planning is, you are never going to get great.

So, START and START RIGHT NOW

Get up….Go on

There are many times in our life when we want to do something, something which we have not done before, something which will force us to push our limits, something which we know is going to take a lot of effort and sacrifice. But, still we gather up the courage and start the task. We start achieving progress and we are very happy with this. We have a hope that we can make it.

But then suddenly, your progress stops, no matter how much you try, you just remain on the same level. You try hard and hard every single day but all in vain, no progress. That’s when you say to yourself, may be i can’t do this. That is the time where we are only one step away from quitting and many quits too. But, whenever we are faced with a situation like this, instead of quitting, we should say:-

You need to believe in yourself. You need to believe that your best is yet to come. You need to believe that your time is coming. You need to say yourself everyday that this is not it, there is still a lot to go. When your progress stops, you shall say to yourself that no matter how bad my time becomes, i will never quit. I am stronger than any situation, better than me previous version, and tomorrow i will be a better version that today. Because remember, you can never become best when you are competing with yourself, you can only become a better version of yourself. The day you think that you are the best version of yourself is the day your progress stops.

So, work hard and become the better version of yourself every single day.

LIVE

We all are here, in this world. But are we all living? Or we just exist in this world? Is Living and existing same thing?

Well, definitely it is not.

Living is not the same as existing. Living refers to soul whereas existing only refers to our physical form i.e. body

Everyone of us exist here but only a few are living the existence. Living means appreciating everything around us and fall in love with beauty of the nature every single second. It means a situation where we are totally with ourselves, living out our dream, doing the craziest things we always wanted to do, travelling the world, spending lovely time with family and sleeping tension free with a smile on the face😊.

So, All i want to say is,” Don’t just exist, LIVE”.

THOUGHT

One day, i thought a thought.

But the thought i thought was not a thought. It made me thought why the hell was i thinking a thought. Then i thought that i was not able to think even a simple thought. I thought i thought.

But still i was not able to think a thought. i thought that i need someone’s help to think a thought. Then i thought, who could help me think a thought. Then my blog family came to my thought and i thought you guys can help me think a thought. I request you all to comment a thought so that i can also think a thought.

P.S.: I am still thinking a thought

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