A Letter to You

This letter is to you-

The you that’s had a rough week. The you that seems to be under constant storm clouds. The you that feels invisible. The you that doesn’t know how much longer you can hold on. The you that has lost faith. The you that always blames yourself for everything that goes wrong. To You. You are incredible. You make this world a little bit more wonderful. You have so much potential and so many things left to do. You have time. Better things are coming your way so please hang in there.

YOU CAN DO IT.

Morning Motivation

Be happy, remain happy, live happy and feel happy with everyone. This is the main purpose of our life.

But we get distracted because we don’t understand its true meaning. Being happy with everyone doesn’t mean making everyone happy. You can never make everyone happy, It is impossible.

so instead of trying to make everyone happy, we should be happy with ourself and be happy with everyone. Only then our life will become happy and beautiful.

So, Spread Happiness, live Happily and beautifully.

How to be mentally strong?

1. Don’t fear alone time.

2. Don’t dwell on the past.

3. Don’t feel the world owes you.

4. Don’t expect immediate results.

5. Don’t worry about pleasing everyone.

6. Don’t waste time feeling sorry for yourself.

7. Don’t waste energy on things you can’t control.

8. Don’t let others influence your emotions.

9. Don’t resent on other people’s success.

10. Don’t shy away from responsibility.

11. Don’t give up after failure.

12. Don’t fear taking calculated risks.

6 things mentally strong people do

1. They move on. They don’t waste time feeling sorry for themselves.

2. They embrace change. They welcome challenges.

3. They stay happy. They don’t watse energy on things they can’t control.

4. They are kind, fair and unafraid to speak up.

5. They are willing to take calculated risk.

6. They celebrate other people’s success. They don’t resent that success.

Morning Motivation

A person should treat everyone (person on the same level as he is, person on a level up and most importantly a person on a level below than him) with same integrity and respect. It shows the real character of a person.

The great Muhammad Ali once said, ” I don’t see the character of a person by the way he treats me, i see his character by the way he treats the person lower than him”.

Everyone deserves respect, no matter how rich we are, how much we have achieved in life, we don’t have any authority to disrespect someone and make fun of them.

So, be humble, be respectful, be nice to everyone and in return you will automatically get the respect and love from everyone.

Good Morning

8 things to make life better in a year

1. Stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are everyday.

2. Embrace loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process.

3. Say goodbye to the people that don’t bring positive energy in your life.

4. Throw off the TV and set internet controls.

5. Pick one skill you want to cultivate and put all your efforts in developing it.

6. Commit to the goals you set and never look back.

7. Sweat everyday to boost your mind.

8. Fail forward. Learn from every mistake you make.

Mistakes = Experience

We have always heard that experience matters everywhere. Whether you go for a job, start a company or even in life, experience matters a lot. Often we have seen someone giving life advice saying that he has a lot of experience and that’s why he knows these situations better than anyone else.

But do you gain experience? How you become experienced in something? Is it just the number of years you spend studying about something? Is a person who is older guaranteed to have more experience than a younger one?

Let me tell you how-

MISTAKES!!!

Mistakes are what helps us gain experience. When we make a mistake, we learn new things and this helps us gain experience which further leads to success.

I once asked someone on a very high post-

Me- How did you do this?

He- By making good decisions

Me- How do you make good decisions?

He- From experience

Me- How do you gain experience?

He- By making bad decisions

So don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Your mistakes are just the pearls you are gathering in your backpack you just don’t realise the value of. But these pearls are the ones which will make you rich someday. So keep collecting them😊

Dreaming: Road to Success as well as a Hurdle

All of you must have rad the novel “Think and Grow Rich”. Even if you haven’t read it, you definitely have heard that “The people who achieve their dreams are the ones who watches one”. Without having dreams and goals, you can’t achieve much in life.

We all have heard infinite number of thoughts describing importance of dreams such as, “If people don’t laugh at your dreams. they are not big enough” or “If you can dream it, you can achieve it” So, i think we can all agree to the fact that watching dreams is very important. Dream is what burns a fire in your belly to go out in the world and become the best thing there has ever been. Dream is what keeps us going through the hardest of times and continue to work hard and at last, it definitely pays off, ofcourse sooner for some than others, but it definitely pays off.

But as the fact is, there are two sides of a coin.

What if i say that as a road to success, dream’s success rate is only about 10% or even less. That means, for more than 90% of people, watching dreams doesn’t act as a motivator, but become a hurdle in their path to success. WHY???

Because once they start watching dreams, they start fantasizing their success. Suppose someone wants to be a big singer, he will start seeing himself on a stage performing with a huge crowd in front of him. He will feel good about seeing this dream and would wish it to be real. He will see this dream all day and night but he will not be able to achieve it in reality because he has become so accustomed to dreaming that he just wants to reach the summit, he doesn’t want to climb it.He does not want to go through all the pain and sacrifice on his way to success because in his mind he has already succeeded.

This is the problem with all of us. We all want the reward not the struggle. We want the result not the process. We are not in love with the fight but only the victory.

But life doesn’t work that way. Who you are is defined by what you are willing to struggle for. People who enjoys struggles of the gym are the ones who run triathlons and have chiseled abs. People who enjoys long workweeks and the politics of the corporate ladder are the ones who climb to the top of it.

This is not about willpower or grit. This is the most simple and basic component of life: Our struggles determines our success. Our problems birth our happiness along with slightly better and upgraded problems.

It’s a never ending upward spiral. And if you think at any point you are allowed to stop climbing, i am afraid you are missing the point, because the joy is in the climb itself.