Be happy, remain happy, live happy and feel happy with everyone. This is the main purpose of our life.
But we get distracted because we don’t understand its true meaning. Being happy with everyone doesn’t mean making everyone happy. You can never make everyone happy, It is impossible.
so instead of trying to make everyone happy, we should be happy with ourself and be happy with everyone. Only then our life will become happy and beautiful.
So, Spread Happiness, live Happily and beautifully.
1. Don’t fear alone time.
2. Don’t dwell on the past.
3. Don’t feel the world owes you.
4. Don’t expect immediate results.
5. Don’t worry about pleasing everyone.
6. Don’t waste time feeling sorry for yourself.
7. Don’t waste energy on things you can’t control.
8. Don’t let others influence your emotions.
9. Don’t resent on other people’s success.
10. Don’t shy away from responsibility.
11. Don’t give up after failure.
12. Don’t fear taking calculated risks.
1. They move on. They don’t waste time feeling sorry for themselves.
2. They embrace change. They welcome challenges.
3. They stay happy. They don’t watse energy on things they can’t control.
4. They are kind, fair and unafraid to speak up.
5. They are willing to take calculated risk.
6. They celebrate other people’s success. They don’t resent that success.
A person should treat everyone (person on the same level as he is, person on a level up and most importantly a person on a level below than him) with same integrity and respect. It shows the real character of a person.
The great Muhammad Ali once said, ” I don’t see the character of a person by the way he treats me, i see his character by the way he treats the person lower than him”.
Everyone deserves respect, no matter how rich we are, how much we have achieved in life, we don’t have any authority to disrespect someone and make fun of them.
So, be humble, be respectful, be nice to everyone and in return you will automatically get the respect and love from everyone.
Good Morning
1. Stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are everyday.
2. Embrace loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process.
3. Say goodbye to the people that don’t bring positive energy in your life.
4. Throw off the TV and set internet controls.
5. Pick one skill you want to cultivate and put all your efforts in developing it.
6. Commit to the goals you set and never look back.
7. Sweat everyday to boost your mind.
8. Fail forward. Learn from every mistake you make.
I don’t think this picture needs an explanation. Every blogger and reader here understands the relevance of consistency and the relationship between consistency and success.
So i am leaving it as it is. Your valuable comments are awaited😊
We have always heard that experience matters everywhere. Whether you go for a job, start a company or even in life, experience matters a lot. Often we have seen someone giving life advice saying that he has a lot of experience and that’s why he knows these situations better than anyone else.
But do you gain experience? How you become experienced in something? Is it just the number of years you spend studying about something? Is a person who is older guaranteed to have more experience than a younger one?
Let me tell you how-
MISTAKES!!!
Mistakes are what helps us gain experience. When we make a mistake, we learn new things and this helps us gain experience which further leads to success.
I once asked someone on a very high post-
Me- How did you do this?
He- By making good decisions
Me- How do you make good decisions?
He- From experience
Me- How do you gain experience?
He- By making bad decisions
So don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Your mistakes are just the pearls you are gathering in your backpack you just don’t realise the value of. But these pearls are the ones which will make you rich someday. So keep collecting them😊
All of you must have rad the novel “Think and Grow Rich”. Even if you haven’t read it, you definitely have heard that “The people who achieve their dreams are the ones who watches one”. Without having dreams and goals, you can’t achieve much in life.
We all have heard infinite number of thoughts describing importance of dreams such as, “If people don’t laugh at your dreams. they are not big enough” or “If you can dream it, you can achieve it” So, i think we can all agree to the fact that watching dreams is very important. Dream is what burns a fire in your belly to go out in the world and become the best thing there has ever been. Dream is what keeps us going through the hardest of times and continue to work hard and at last, it definitely pays off, ofcourse sooner for some than others, but it definitely pays off.
But as the fact is, there are two sides of a coin.
What if i say that as a road to success, dream’s success rate is only about 10% or even less. That means, for more than 90% of people, watching dreams doesn’t act as a motivator, but become a hurdle in their path to success. WHY???
Because once they start watching dreams, they start fantasizing their success. Suppose someone wants to be a big singer, he will start seeing himself on a stage performing with a huge crowd in front of him. He will feel good about seeing this dream and would wish it to be real. He will see this dream all day and night but he will not be able to achieve it in reality because he has become so accustomed to dreaming that he just wants to reach the summit, he doesn’t want to climb it.He does not want to go through all the pain and sacrifice on his way to success because in his mind he has already succeeded.
This is the problem with all of us. We all want the reward not the struggle. We want the result not the process. We are not in love with the fight but only the victory.
But life doesn’t work that way. Who you are is defined by what you are willing to struggle for. People who enjoys struggles of the gym are the ones who run triathlons and have chiseled abs. People who enjoys long workweeks and the politics of the corporate ladder are the ones who climb to the top of it.
This is not about willpower or grit. This is the most simple and basic component of life: Our struggles determines our success. Our problems birth our happiness along with slightly better and upgraded problems.
It’s a never ending upward spiral. And if you think at any point you are allowed to stop climbing, i am afraid you are missing the point, because the joy is in the climb itself.
We are told since we are kids, “Set goals, targets and then work hard to achieve them”. Whether it is academic or sports or business, everyone sets a target and then achieve them or nearly achieve them.
But why is setting target so important? can’t we succeed without setting target? The answer is yes, we can obviously get success but target setting just helps our mind to know what is the maximum we want to achieve and it operates the body accordingly. Okay, those lines maybe complicated.
Let us take an example: when you go to gym, you know a level of every exercise you can do easily. Let us take squats, lets suppose you can do 40 squats comfortably. But you will set you target to 50 squats and when you start, you will do 40 easily, 41 to 47 will be very hard and last 3 would just take as much effort as the previous 47 did. Obviously you will complete 50 squats but you will not be able to do a single more. After doing 50 you will feel totally exhausted and will not be able to do more.
Now, lets analyse the example.
I hope you will find the answers, do share them. Now, you know why is it important to set high targets.
like someone said, Always aim for the moon, if you miss it, don’t worry, you will fall among the stars.
and like Dan Pena said,” You will never achieve a cent more than your target”.
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