There has never been an individual like you before and there will never be again. You are utterly unique. This is your privilege, your prerogative, existence’s blessing- that it has made you unique. Don’t compare, comparison will bring trouble.
The worst thing we can do is compare ourselves with others and try to be like others. Each one of us is a different fruit. An apple should never compare with a peach because it can never become peach and in the process of becoming a peach, it may lose its identity of an apple as well. An apple is best as an apple.
The you that’s had a rough week. The you that seems to be under constant storm clouds. The you that feels invisible. The you that doesn’t know how much longer you can hold on. The you that has lost faith. The you that always blames yourself for everything that goes wrong. To You. You are incredible. You make this world a little bit more wonderful. You have so much potential and so many things left to do. You have time. Better things are coming your way so please hang in there.
A person should treat everyone (person on the same level as he is, person on a level up and most importantly a person on a level below than him) with same integrity and respect. It shows the real character of a person.
The great Muhammad Ali once said, ” I don’t see the character of a person by the way he treats me, i see his character by the way he treats the person lower than him”.
Everyone deserves respect, no matter how rich we are, how much we have achieved in life, we don’t have any authority to disrespect someone and make fun of them.
So, be humble, be respectful, be nice to everyone and in return you will automatically get the respect and love from everyone.
We have always heard that experience matters everywhere. Whether you go for a job, start a company or even in life, experience matters a lot. Often we have seen someone giving life advice saying that he has a lot of experience and that’s why he knows these situations better than anyone else.
But do you gain experience? How you become experienced in something? Is it just the number of years you spend studying about something? Is a person who is older guaranteed to have more experience than a younger one?
Let me tell you how-
Mistakes are what helps us gain experience. When we make a mistake, we learn new things and this helps us gain experience which further leads to success.
I once asked someone on a very high post-
Me- How did you do this?
He- By making good decisions
Me- How do you make good decisions?
He- From experience
Me- How do you gain experience?
He- By making bad decisions
So don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Your mistakes are just the pearls you are gathering in your backpack you just don’t realise the value of. But these pearls are the ones which will make you rich someday. So keep collecting them😊